Since the time he was young, his parents
spoiled him very much, because he was the only son. So he grew up
with no knowledge except that of singing, dancing, feasting and making
merry with his friends with money from his parents. And when he came
of age, his parents found a wife for him. Then shortly afterwards,
they died. And after their death, the youth spent all his time with
his idle good-for-nothing companions, passing whole days drinking
and gambling.
As a result, his father's money quickly
vanished, and the young man was forced to borrow money from other
people, but he had no means of repaying his debts. He never knew how
to work to earn money, and he never knew how to keep it. Perhaps he
wasn't taught how to be economical. Perhaps his parents were at fault
too, because they should have taught him how to be a human being,
and not just how to be the son of a wealthy person.
So because he owed a lot of money to
different people, they constantly came to his house and pressed him.
He became very desperate with fear and worry and did not know what
to do. Finally, he decided upon a plan of action. He was very, very
depressed and desperate, so he called all his creditors and told them
that he had a treasure buried near the bank of the Ganges. And if
the next day they would come with him, they could all go and look
together for the treasure. And then he would repay all his debts to
them.
So all the creditors were very happy
and followed him to the river's bank. He tried searching here and
there, and everyone followed him, even though he seemed perplexed
as to what he was doing. But this guy intended to commit suicide;
all this was just for show. So when he came to a place in the river
with a very fast current, he just jumped in. All the creditors were
very horrified and helplessly stood by. No one dared rescue him because
the water was very swift.
When they saw that he was completely
gone, all the creditors sadly returned home. They thought he was dead
and drowned. Because he had been swept away very, very far in a very
swift current. And they didn't see him anymore downstream; therefore
they left. But when his unconscious body flowed down the river, he
passed by a flowering grove and mango tree forest. And a deer that
was very beautiful and fleet footed lived there, away from the rest
of the deer herd. His skin shone like burnished gold, and his feet
looked as if they were polished with lacquer. His horns were like
spirals of silver, and his eyes glittered like precious gems.
He was nibbling some tender grass roots
when he heard wild cries echoing through the forest. Running down
to the river's edge, he saw the unfortunate merchant's son struggling
in the water. At once he called out, "Wait! Do not be afraid!
I am coming to save you." So he plunged into the river, and swimming
strongly against the current, reached the man. Then the deer put the
man on his back and brought him safely back to shore.
But the merchant's son was very exhausted,
and collapsed. For three days and nights, he was unconscious, and
the deer nursed and fed him with wild fruit. When the man recovered,
the deer said to him, "Now I will lead you out of the woods and
show you the road to Benares. But I ask you one favor. Please don't
tell the king or any of his nobles that a golden deer lives in this
forest. Because they will come here and try to catch me if they know."
So the merchant's son readily promised, and the deer put him on the
road to Benares.
That morning, Queen Kama, wife of the
king of Benares at that time, had a dream. In the dream, she saw a
golden deer speaking in a human voice. She thought to herself, "Surely
there must be such an animal. Otherwise I would not have dreamt about
it." So she went to the king, Brahmadatta. She told him about
her dream and that she desired to possess such an animal. Otherwise,
she would die.
This is a trick of the woman. She would
die sooner or later anyhow, so what's the big deal? But the king,
like most men on this planet, was also very stupid. (Laughter) He
was very afraid of his wife, that maybe she would really die. If she
died for the king it would be very understandable. But if she died
for a deer, however golden it was, it just sounded funny. (Laughter)
But the king bought it. Anyhow, that's just to let you know that you
are not the only ones who are so stupid, and who the real boss in
the house is. Even in Buddha's time it was the same. So I don't know
why the women of today are wasting their time, demonstrating and giving
speeches for all kinds of women's rights and women's equality. Women
have never been equal to men. They are superior to men! I don't know
who should be fighting for equality. So tell all these stupid women
to stop it. Don't degrade us. We are superior; what are they fighting
about equality for? (Laughter)