The Power of Thought and Speech
Spoken by
Supreme Master Ching Hai, Florida,
December 30, 2001 (Originally in Chinese) Videotape #732
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Use only positive language
We should always speak positively! Since making negative comments takes
up the same amount of time and effort, with little difference, then why
not use positive language? Refrain from speaking false words out of
false courtesy, which only makes the listener feel agitated because they
aren’t true. We practice the way of the Truth, and we don't like hearing
words that are empty and false, do we? (A: No, we don’t.) For example,
"Master, it’s been different for You." "Master, You
haven't eaten?" or "Master,
this and that…." (Laughter) It sounds so dull, without genuine
sincerity. You should not make such false remarks, wasting your time and
energy and making people irritated. Also, it creates a negative
atmosphere around us.
When you hear someone say, "Oh! I’m so happy today," and then hear
another person say, "I feel so bored today," which of them sounds more
comfortable? (A: The happy one.) Yes! Sometimes, you do not feel
irritated yourself, but when someone just speaks to you, you feel
irritated. For example, you sit down to enjoy a cup of tea, and someone
comes along and says, "Oh! My son has just gotten married!" "My
daughter-in-law has given birth to a plump, lovely baby!" "My business
is doing well!" "I’m healthy and sound!" "Oh! I have great hopes for the
future. Although the situation isn’t so good now, it will improve
later." Do you prefer listening to these delightful words, or do you
prefer frustrating comments, such as "How come my grandson is so fat?"
"Sigh! Why did they get married?" "Oh! That son-in-law of mine is really
troublesome! I told my daughter not to marry him, but she wouldn’t
listen. He is definitely not a good guy. Very soon the two of them will
get divorced for sure!" (Laughter) For example, if people said that,
would you like it? (A: No!) Even if what they said were true, you
wouldn’t like to hear it, would you? (A: No.) We love to hear things
that are happy and positive.
There are plenty of good things in this world for us to enjoy. For
example, the flowers are beautiful, the sky is serene and the moon is
enchanting, so why should we look at those silly corners? Besides, I was
not the one who said that it had been different for me. How did she know that
it had been different for me? I went out happily to see the fellow
practitioners and to touch you like this. All of us were very happy, but
then we heard "It’s different for You, Master! It’s
different for You, Master!" Oh,
God! Then I felt it was really different for me, and really didn't want to do
it anymore! (Laughter)
With our speech and thoughts, we can help people but also curse people.
We can elevate people and make them very happy, but we can also put them
down and make them feel uncomfortable. Unless you’re a teacher or
master, who must edify people and rectify the mistakes of the students,
you’d better refrain from saying anything negative. Of course, you may
say it when it is necessary. For instance, if your child behaves very
badly, you might say "You’re not behaving well today!" In this way, at
least you’ve put in a positive word—"well." Or you might say "You are
not a good child today!" Although the word "not," is there, the word
"good" is also there. (Laughter) Refrain from saying "You are really bad
today!" When children hear positive words such as "behave well" or
"good," they try their best to improve. In educating people, you should
also speak in this way as much as possible. For instance, about someone
who is overweight, we should not say that he is fat. Instead, we can
say, "He is not that slim." (Master and everyone laugh.) Between
friends, saying more beautiful words will make your friendship more
lasting.
Regarding the Master, you should just leave Her alone. She was born to
rectify people’s faults. She is stern when She should be stern, and She
is gentle when She should be gentle. She has to do that; She has no
other choice! Such is the power of Creation. For example, it takes a
torrential downpour to bring lots of rain. If it only drizzles every
day, we won’t have enough water to use. However, a heavy rainfall can
also cause inconveniences. Roads can be destroyed and the traffic
disrupted; we might get wet when going outdoors, or some agricultural
produce might be washed away by the rain. This is unavoidable for such
is the situation in this world. We won't have these problems in Heaven.
Our speech is also very powerful. Even ordinary people who are not
spiritual practitioners have power in their speech. That’s why some
people’s words come true when they curse others. Or when someone
wholeheartedly wishes you well though he isn’t a spiritual practitioner,
you will still benefit due to his sincerity. "Everything is created by
the mind." When a person is sincere, he becomes really pure. It doesn't
even matter if his usual behavior isn’t good. The moment he’s sincere,
his heart really becomes pure. If he wishes you well at that moment, the
result will be very good. But if he’s full of hatred at the moment he
curses you, it will also generate a great influence. Curses by spiritual
practitioners are even more powerful; whatever they say will come true.
Therefore, you must be cautious in your speech.
Science has demonstrated the immense power of thought
In Japan, scientists have conducted experiments with water. First
they froze a cup of water, then observed the changes and took
photographs. They found crystallized forms resembling snowflakes. If the
water had been unclean, however, the crystalline pattern in the photo
would not have looked like snowflakes, but would have appeared very
blurred without a definite shape. A cup of dirty, polluted water, after
being sanctified by prayer before it was frozen, was later observed and
photographed. The resulting crystals were also as clear and beautiful as
snowflakes.
They conducted many other similar tests. For instance, they said "Thank
you" to a cup of water, or pasted a piece of paper with the words "Thank
you" written on it, and then the crystalline forms became very
beautiful. If they wrote the names of bad people like Hitler on it, the
crystals, when photographed, looked like ghosts or even formed a ghostly
face! It was very horrible and filthy. If the names of Saints were
written on it, the crystals took on a different pattern. Depending on
the greatness of the Saint, the photographs would also show different
images. Perhaps it was also related to the sincerity of the person
conducting the experiment. Therefore, even without spoken words, just a
written word or a focusing of our thoughts can create an impact. During
the experiment, if they said, "You are very bad! I’ll kill you," the
crystals looked very horrible in their photographs! Thus we cannot say
that the speech and wishes of non-spiritual practitioners don’t have
power. They do!
Before embarking on the spiritual path, I traveled a lot visiting
enlightened Masters. When I got home, I shared my experiences with my
former husband and he said, "Those people may not be really great. You
can also become an enlightened Master!” I responded, "You must be
joking! Who am I? Don't you know that these people are great Masters?"
So he said, "You definitely can become an enlightened Master!" and I
replied, "Oh! Thank you!" At that time, I didn't give any thought to
being a Master, but he was very sincere when he said that. He added, "I
think you can also become an enlightened Master, even better than any of
them!” (Laughter) He had faith in me. He made this observation as we
lived together every day. He didn't understand those enlightened
Masters, but he understood me. We were married for two years, but most
of the time I slept in another room and chanted scriptures every day.
(Master and everyone laugh.) At that time, I didn’t know any other
method; I only knew about chanting the scriptures. I chanted the Lotus
Sutra in the morning and other scriptures in the evening. Each day I
chanted different scriptures. Sometimes, my body had a levitating
sensation so I felt that I was getting some kind of response.
So sometimes when we’re working on something and there are people
supporting us or wishing us success, we will really do it very smoothly.
However, if a group, a couple or several people are working together on
something, but one of them opposes it, the process won’t feel the same.
It will seem as though it’s being pulled back or dragged down by
something, and the job can’t be accomplished even after a long time.
This kind of obstructive atmosphere can really affect our work because
all beings are one. If everyone has the same ideal, everything will go
smoothly because everyone is cooperating well. No one is opposing it;
each person has the same target, each one contributes to the best of his
ability, and everyone marches in the same direction. Therefore, anything
we do can be done smoothly.
Our thoughts and speech are truly very powerful so we must be very
cautious when we speak! I’m also very cautious now. When we speak, the
more careful we are the better. We really have to take care of our
actions, speech and thoughts. Now that we have scientific evidence, we
feel that it’s even more frightful. Previously, you just listened to me
talking about it and never realized that it could be so serious. So
speaking is not the end of it; it’s also recorded in the universe and
will affect the atmosphere around us. Just by pasting a couple of words
on a cup of water, leaving it there overnight and then freezing it, the
photographs come out differently.
Thus since ancient times, people have invited spiritual practitioners to
dispel ghosts, bring blessings and join in the celebration when they
move into a new house. On New Year’s Day, we Aulacese select a very good
person to enter the house. That is to say, the first one entering the
house must be a virtuous person instead of just casually letting anyone
in. At that time they place a broom by the door, meaning that evil
people aren’t allowed into their homes.
Fellow initiates share experiences
Initiate:
Master, You just said that whatever we say comes true. I’ve
had several such experiences. I’m afraid that when I say something
that’s not good, it will also come true. So, since childhood I’ve always
spoken very carefully, and even if I’m very angry, I dare not curse
people. Take one incident for example. There are many mango trees at the Hsihu Center, and once there was lots of fruit on them. I wanted to eat
a piece very much, but was afraid that the resident practitioners would
scold me if I climbed up to pick one. Sitting on a slope, I said to the
mango tree, "If you let a mango fall and roll all the way near my hand,
then I can pick it up and eat it. In that case, I think the resident
practitioners won’t scold me." (Laughter) Eventually, a mango actually
did fall and roll over by my side.
Master:
That was very positive thinking! (Master and everyone laugh.)
I: Another time, I took a stroll in the mountains with my daughter, and
there we saw many red persimmons. Both my daughter and I wanted to eat
some of them so I said to the persimmon tree, "This belongs to God
anyway!" (Laughter) Then a piece of fruit actually fell! Sometimes,
fruit falling from a tree has worms inside, but the one that fell then
didn’t have worms in it and was very fresh. When I’m with my kids, I
feel as though I’m with God. Then I picked up the persimmon and ate it;
it was very fragrant and sweet. So since childhood, I’ve never dared
speak recklessly. Even when I’m very angry, I dare not say things that
aren’t good; because I fear that it might come true, and then I’ll be in
serious trouble.
M: If you say it wholeheartedly, it will really come true! But if you
don’t give it much thought when you say it, then that’s OK. If you
really say it with your heart, of course, it carries greater power.
Thus, it’s better if we say only positive things. I know you’re very
benign, and have no reason to curse anyone. If you can wish others well,
then that will be best. If you can’t, then hold your tongue. It’s not
because we’re afraid of death or disaster, but that we don't want to
pollute the atmosphere around us. We have to live in it too! The
atmosphere is just like the air, intangible and invisible. If we poison
the air, we poison ourselves too. If the air is clean, we also feel very
comfortable.
We Aulacese have a saying: "If your house is clean, you feel cool. If
your dining utensils are washed clean, your meals taste better." Why?
It’s because we’re happy and feel homey. Sometimes, when you eat in
restaurants, you may notice that their dishes aren’t clean or that
they’re greasy, and then you don’t feel like eating. No matter how
hungry you are at the time, very soon you have no appetite left. Is that
right? (A: Yes.) Or, when we go to a certain place, no matter how nice
the house is, if it’s filthy and dark inside, we won’t want to touch it.
Our mood changes and we feel obstructed. When we’re irritated at heart,
obstacles come. The negative power naturally converges there. ♥
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