A group of frogs
was traveling through the woods and two of them fell into a deep pit.
Immediately, all the other frogs in the group gathered around the
pit and watched as the imprisoned frogs tried to jump out. The frogs
on top could see that the pit was very deep and it looked as if there
was no way out, so they started yelling at the two frogs in the pit
to give up. "The pit is too deep. You're as good as dead,"
the chorus of frogs said. When the trapped frogs kept trying, the
crowd yelled louder, "Give up. You're as good as dead."
After a while, one of the exhausted frogs took heed to what the others
were saying, and fell down and died.
But amazingly, the
second frog kept jumping as hard as she could despite the negative
remarks of those that kept yelling at her to accept the inevitable
and just die. Finally, with one valiant leap, she made it out of the
pit!
This amazing result
occurred because the second frog was deaf and unable to hear what
the others had been saying. She thought they had been cheering her
on the entire time they were yelling! What she had mistakenly perceived
as encouragement inspired her to try harder and succeed against all
odds. And that made all the difference!
The experience of
the first frog in this story relates to Master's words about non-attachment
to the world, including being detached from other people's comments
and opinions: "We live in this world, but we should not be attached
to it. We need to know that everything in this world is trouble and
to keep our mind in the supreme teaching, just like the lotus flowers
in a muddy lake without being contaminated." (Aphorisms, News
No. 17)
With a positive
mindset, and being deaf to others' opinions, the second frog made
use of such negativity to overcome obstacles and reach her goals by
using it as encouragement, instead of being influenced by others like
the first frog, who failed to develop her potential to strive for
survival. Thus, when we surmount others' criticism, ridicule or cynical
comments, we can do anything we set our minds to, just as the second
frog did. But, if we are not deaf like this frog, who could not be
influenced by others due to a physical condition, we need the Supreme
Wisdom to guide us to the proper way, so as not to be blindly guided
by worldly opinion.
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